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I am 43 yrs. old and at my wit's end!  This past year has been tumultuous to say the least.  We lost our home in June to foreclosure.  Then, in November, my 21 yr. old son broke his neck, a week later my Mom had a nervous breakdown, then my Dad became sick at the end of Dec. and just passed away on Jan. 15.  My husband is in construction and has been for 14 years.  He is self-employed and now can't get enough work to make ends meet.  I am a RE agent, have been for 6 yrs., but have not done anything much for the past year.  I am the caregiver of my family, so all of the family crisis situations fall squarely in my lap and have only added to the financial and emotional stress we already had.  I am having trouble asking for help, but at this point I don't know what else to do.  If someone could give me a loan even, I would pay it back in payments.  I just need a few months to get going and find a new form of income.  I did not have a vehicle for the past year as mine broke down and we have not been able to get it fixed.  Since my Dad died, I now have his car and can hopefully find some work.  Any help would be appreciated.  Especially anybody who has a way to make a living online.  I would love to find an opportunity to make a legitimate living online.  Thanks for listening and thanks in advance for any help!

We have always been the family that gives, now due to the economy, I am now in the receiving line in great need for help to pay a court ordered rent of $1200.00 I live in the Virginia Beach, VA area.   My family which the youngest is 18 mths have no where elese to turn for help.  We are facing eviction, another family out living in the streets. Before that happens, I will swallow my pride, do anything to prevent this from happening. So I am asking for immediate rental help.   We have been to the catholic charites, stop org, salvation army they could not help us. I just got a job after months of pursuing employment, I start next week. This will be truly a blessing for my family, I am praying for your assistance.  Thank you! Hope to received your email.

I am fighting for disibility. We are living on 0 income right now and bills are piling up. My son's bday is Dec 20th wich makes it worse. Can anyone find it in their heart to donate just a little for our bills. It's cold here and I am on oxygen. Thank you for stopping bye and God Bless you and yours.

I am a single mom to four kids and i need a home for me and my family. I have no transportaion and am in need of a vehicle. I am not able to work at this time and want to. I am living with family in a 3 bedroom house, but by the grace of God, they sacrificed for us , and im grateful. please help my family in any way. This is hard for me to do but I must ask, because God says we have not because we ask not, and im only asking. Even if it's just a prayer. Thank you dearly!

                  I found a new attorney who will help us. We went to see him yesterday, he is off of Novi road, I actually had someone send me a message off of here through my email. I don't know that persons name but thank you very much. The attorney who is going to try to help us is Alan Graff he is a very nice man. Now our obsticle is half of the battle. He will take our bond money and collect it after we get it back for his fee, that knocks the 5,000 off I will now only have to come up with 1,000 that is still a lot of money but it is a lot better then 5,000. Whoever you were who helped me with this, I really thank you. If you read this then please get back to me so I can thank you. I can't reply to your email it won't let me. But I wanted to answer your questions that you left in my email.  Your question: Let me know if he drops the price. My answer: Yes he did he said we only had to give him 1,000 up front to try the motion. We can put the 5,000 on a payment plan that means I have to go get extra jobs a.s.a.p I hope I am hired in quick ;) Your question: Who all lives in your home? My answer: My fiance and I and his son. Your question: What other problems are you facing? My answer: This has been a very difficult time, we can not afford our rent because of this disaster, we have spent all of our money. Regardless of the lesser payment we still need to ultimatly come up with 6,000 but that is a lot better then 12,000 like most laywers want. The 1,000 up front is a very good thing because that is not a horrible amount, still it will be a strugle just not as bad. And the other 5,000 if the motion goes through to recant the plea will be hard to come up with but I am going to go saddle like 3 jobs if I can, because if it goes to trail it won't be till after the new year. We have been trying to get other jobs just to afford food, and what really squashed us financially was the deaths that we have had in the family, the biggest one was when my sister and her boyfriend died, the funeral costs are so horrible. We just don't quite live the same anymore without them. We have their son now. That is why I have to stay next door to my mom, I need to be able to help her out. She does have health complications, she has mitro valve prolapse so she can't get to nervous because she could end up having a heart attack. And my step father has a tumor, it's not life threatening but he is losing his eyesite. I hate the fact that things turned out like this. I just wish there was someone who I could actually talk to that would just see Justice to my fiance. Your question: Do you have any money saved up? My answer: Yes we have $300.00 we need $700.00 to be able to retain this lawyer, we are trying to come up with this, I have almost everything I own left worth some value listed on eBay, but that does not mean anyone will buy it. Sometimes eBay is slow, plus they make you pay for listing things, and I just woke up this morning and my bank account is over drafted by $70.00 because they took out my eBay fee's and I didn't have any money in the account because I had to pull out all of my savings, and if I lose this bank account then I lose eBay. It just seems that every way I turn I lose. I know it happens in everyone's life, but these things are just so horrible and emense. I don't want to give up, but it feels like I just need to lay down and die, because everything that I try to do positive always has a negitive outlined effect. But I thank you for all of your help and concern. In case you forgot my email address it is bruce_amber09@yahoo.com, please get back to me if you see this on here because I can't reply to your email. And does anyone know where I could get a loan for about 1,000 because I can use the extra $200.00 off of the $800.00 that I need for food and to fix my bank account to try and get back on track. I can not get a loan from a bank because I have bad credit and no current paper check stubs all my money transactions are done through my PayPal account, is there any other place that would let me get a loan out anywhere in this world for 1,000 if I signed a written contract to pay it back, what if they would look at all my court documents and see that I was telling the truth? I have all the proof of everything that is going on, my bank account, the legal issue, my house, everything. Please let me know a.s.a.p. because the next thing to go is the electric, and I won't have access to the computer. Please if anyone can help let me know just email me. Thank you, and God Bless I am very desperate at this point. Thank you, Amber :)

my name is jessica i recently had a still birth i have been so heart broken that i havent been able to work and i lost my job my husband cant find a job so if any one can help us in this time of need please do so god bless

I need help and this is my first time on here... I am a single mom of three kids.  I have lost my job and am losing my house, but have a job lined up (godsend in this economy) and a place to live 2 states away.  I've already title loaned my car to even get there to interview, and I don't have any other resources.  I need the relocation money, our little family will be ok once we get there.  I don't know what else to do, i don't have any family to turn to.

Bless you for reading this.

For years I put myself through college, always worked full time at one or two jobs, have my two kids involved in everything and taught them to help everyone. Now, I need some help and find it the hardest thing I've ever done, just to ask for it. I now donate time at local charities, and realize they truly have nothing to give, and are reaching into their own private pocketbooks, and don't have the heart to admit I need help as well. I just got my eviction notice two days ago, and owe 1100.00 or will have to be out. I paid 50.00 towards my electric bill and am left begging with them to allow me to make payments. I have to walk everywhere since a recent accident(a lady passed out and hit us at 50 miles per hour) totaled my car, and have no money to get a new one. I am paying medical bills left and right, and finally found help with those, but jobs are few and far between and mine does nothing but cut my hours away. I have applied everywhere and get two responses, that I am either over or under qualified, and that they are just not hiring. I am so scared at this point, that I have not been sleeping, and put this cheerful front up to my kids, and feel I have failed. I have never been this desperate in my life, and have always prided on my helping and aiding all others who were in need. I just need to get caught up, keep a roof over our heads, and figure out someway to get a used car to go and search further for employment as well as get my kids back on track with their activities. Please, don't think of me as weak, meager, or desperate. I'd hate to be seen like that, but do please help(gosh, that is really hard to say)anything would be wonderful, and hopefully soon we will have our once happy and secure life back. Thank you ever so much, and will keep all those who read this in prayer and thanks.

I've been fighting for my disability for 3 years now, and I'm only on round 3. I have Bipolar 1, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Major Depression, Severe Anxiety, and other little minor things to go along with it. My dad passed from cancer when I was 8 (main reason I have PTSD), so its just been me and my mom all these years, and she's worked the same job since she was pregnant with me, now making 7 bucks an Hr.

I never ment to get pregnant the first or second time, but I dont belive in abortion nor would I accept myself if i was to give them up for adoption. I have 2 boys, one that will be a year June 17, 2009 and I'm due with the other one 2 weeks before the first one's birthday.

I know, "Why didnt you _(fill in blank)_ to not get pregnant again?!"

Answer: 1st time, I was in hospital for a severe UTI, and I was on antibiotics that i did not know that would make my birthcontrol not work, and the 2nd time I made sure i was on birth control, and my other doc put me on a med for my bipolar that made my birthcontrol not work and KNEW I WAS ON THE BIRTHCONTROL, and didnt tell me until the next month when she said "oh my! You're on birthcontrol, and this med might make it not work, so you might want to go get tested. sure enough, My son is 3 months old and i'm 1 month pregnant again! I'M GETTING TIED THIS TIME!

Their Dad and I are trying to work things out, and our relationship is complicated, but he's here for me and the boys on a daily basis (doesnt live here though), but He doenst have a job either because of the economy right now, and the car's motor just threw a rod and then blew, he's tried everywhere around our little town.

I'm happy that we can get the bills paid, and get the diapers and baby things and food to get us by, but that's it though, and its really depressing. All the refund that my mom got this year went to property taxes and stuff for the new baby, and that was pretty much it. I'm happy to have what I have, but it would be nice to have something in my pocket to just run up to walmart and be able to get something myself.

I dont shop at malls or designer stores, I shop for all my stuff at Walmart, and I'm even limited there! A new shirt every once in a while is nice... And it would feel weird going to goodwill or stores like that... I'll just stick to my old clothes. (i usually get a few shirts a year, maybe a pair of pants or 2)

Hi, i am new to this page and i don't quite know how to start off but i will do the best i can...i have always been the type in the past that held much pride and dared not to accept anyones kindness or even my own self pity. well this year has taught me that when you need help that you can do nothing about , one has to come to realize that their pride has to be tossed away along with all you've lost. i guess i will start from the beginning and try hard not to rambel. well earlier this year i recently moved from my home state: mississippi to texas in hopes of changing my life and excelling in college as a fashion design major. well as soon as i moved to texas my unfortunate downfall begin to come to play. on January 1st 2008 i lost a dear friend of mine a few days later my great grandmother died so i went to back to back funerals and basically had to grieve more than once in one month to add to that i had just began my life long dream to go to a fashion institute but my first day of school it was raining and i could not concentrate because i had just lost 2 of the most favorite people in my life to add to that it just so happen that my first day of school was my birthday so i did not celebrate nor did i have the strength to crack a smile to my new classmates and cheer over my future. well, i did not add that i left behind a fiance in mississippi and with the move there came distrust and discomfort so i everything seem to be shaky. well i got used by my fiance and he ended up breaking up with me in april of 2008 i was devasted and had still not gotten over the close ones that past away. well school i could not concentrate again and i could not be happy nor did i have interest in my passion anylonger. my mother became sick she was having strokes left to right and her relationship was failing my little sister was becoming a trouble maker and i lost my job due to economic downsizing. on top of that my car broke on me so i was left walking in what was still a new city to me because i never got to sight see due to me working all the time and having fashion shows almost all the time. well i ended up losing my apartment that i was in and a few months after that i found out my grandmother had lung cancer and she was dying but she tried to hide it...i knew she was going to sadly pass soon because i witnessed her cry in front of me for the first time in my life. well she passed and my mother quoted to me i lost my best friend: her mother and i lost my own soul that hurt me because i did not know what to do. well i ended up dropping out of school or better yet getting kicked out because i had to tend to my mother and her ailing health and make sure my siblings were okay. i tried to get a loan to get back in school but i was denied and my financial aid did not go through..i felt like surely there was nothing more i could go through but i was wrong.well my grandfather tried to commit suicide and so did my older sister. my family my world my life was and is falling apart. so i still did not have a job out of school mother sick and my older sister had to move in with my mom and i with her 3 children...but more bad news came the apartment we stay in presented us with an eviction notice and said that we owed 600 by december 31 of 2008 ior we will basically be homeless and on top of that we will owe  900 dollars more on the 1st to pay off the regular rent... none of us has a job... i am so stressed that my hari has fallen out my weight has gone up and down i just dont know what to do... i have tried to get a loan and applied for all types of rental assistance and have recieved no luck... i knew nothing else to do but to plead for someone to either donate or help us...i throw away my old pride and ask...i have so much left on my shoulders and i need help....we need help...we need help... Helpppppppppppp please  i am desperate

I have managed to pay most of my rent, but still owe another 200...It was due on the first and the landlord has given me till Wednesday to finsih paying him...If I could ask for 1.00 to 5.00 pledges from you that would add up and maybe I can save my home for me and My 3 Children...I do have a paypal account or I can give you a address to send it directly.

My paypal addy is nicholslorrie37@gmail.com

In reguards to a recnt post of finding an Angel to Sponsor my Children.for X-Mas..I have found one and her name is Jennifer...and God Bless and wish you all the best with yours...

I'm a single parent that just got custody of my 8 month old daughter, I also have a disabled parent that lives with me.

I live in a very rural area. In this rural community that I live in there is no work, there are (3) three bars and (1) one resturant. I'm about 150 miles to the closest city. I need to be able to move to the city where I can get a job, housing and be close to hospitals, schools and shopping.

I figure that to make this move would cost about $5,000.00. I'm an able bodied 39 year old adult that can do just about any kind of work. Any donations of money, work or housing would greatly be appreciated.  

I would like to take this time to thank any and all that can help.

i want u to do istikhar for my cousin mahfooz hasan, mother name gausan ara, father's name aley hasan. he's having lots of problem in his married life. his marriage is at stake. we want all the problems or crisis or whatever is settle down as soon as possible. can u pls do istikhara for him & tell us whats the problem or exactly how we should deal the crisis. or any " bandish" is working on him or not. pls help us. we're in great trouble.

I am 19 years old and the mother of two beautiful little girls, ages 1 and 3. I've overcome a lot in my life already, but I think I've finally met my match. My husband recently walked off his job due to harrassment. He works on a land-rig. He is a Floorhand and the Driller harrassed him constantly from day one, even throwing things at him and hitting him. My brother happens to be the Toolpusher. He told my husband to go home and he could come back in two weeks. That didn't happen. We are scared to start to many problems, for fear of being "black-balled". My husband managed to get on another rig, but the hiring process will take two weeks and then it will be another two weeks until he gets his first check. We are on the verge of losing our home. We pay $1290 in rent, our electric bill is $350 this month and due on the 20th, phone bill is $130, car payment of $400, and a quite a few other bills are due, not to mention food and cost of living. I've tried to apply for several loans, however, his credit stinks, and I don't have enough. If anyone knows where I can get some help, please let me know. My major concern is our rent.. I'm sure I can work with the other bills once we get back on our feet. $3000 is all it would take to cover us until he gets his check. I'm surely not trying to sound pathetic, but I am most certainly desperate. My children are happy in this home, and I don't want to disappoint them. I am aware that people come here to scam others, this is no such thing. I'll go out of my way to prove it, if needed.

Hi

I am a 23-year-old student who recently gave birth and lost her first child. I also have mother with 5 aneurisms that can kill her at any moment. I am the oldest so I take care of her and my two younger brothers which can be hard. But the hardest part is that three months ago I gave birth to my daughter and she passed away within minutes. There is a huge part of my missing with the fact that I had to do it all alone and the father left me with a debt of $25,000. I am trying so hard to get back on my feet and keep moving on but it seems to be taking a toll on my heart. I have been having a lot of chest pain since the birth and don't have any insurance to get it taken care of. I can't even get out of bed when this happens. I am on the verge of dancing at a strip club to pay my debt but I thought I would try this first and see how that goes. I am in desperate need of financial help. If anyone can please help me with anything I would greatly appreciate it. I really need to get out of this debt to keep my life mocing. Please help!

I'am sincerely hoping someone can help me. I have always worked very hard as a medic, deputy sheriff, and other positions. However after leaving these positions due to a injury it has been one thing after another. However still working as hard as I can. We are up against a wall, the home we were renting had sold and we had to leave. We are staying with some friends, but have to leave on December 17th. My paychecks just are not enough to get us into a home. I have my wife and two children to worry about and have no relatives to help they have all past on. We are a very close family so I really do not have many freinds, my time is spent with my family. If someone could please help me, I need $2500 to pay for deposits, rent and utlities. I just do not have any where two turn to, my time is running out. Thank you very much for taking the time to read this. Any help would be appreciated. Randy